The Science
RAY LC

for Claire Pan
after Elizabeth Bishop

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The science of forgetting is not inscrutable;
so much information pokes at our brain
for attention that to forget it is forgivable.

Making forgetting a routine is an insightful
way to absorb rejection and deal with pain.
The science of forgetting is not inscrutable.

Forget old colleagues' names that aren't so useful;
omit trained habits to learn new ones instead.
Just archive your indices. Tis all forgivable.

I can forget meetings, failures, disputes; capable
of conditioning my mind daily to remain sane.
The science of forgetting is not inscrutable.

I blank out on my age, name, and every syllable
I uttered (Emphatic!) to make my existence remain.
It moved on before me, but even that's forgivable.

But when you (whose voice moves me, face bespectacle)
left me my memories, I give but one refrain:
the science of forgetting is not inscrutable
but being forgotten, that is unforgivable.